Hi there! I’m Priya Parker.

I’m a facilitator, strategic advisor, author, and life-long curious student.

I believe everyone has the ability to gather well. I’m here to help you rethink and reimagine how we spend our time together and infuse it with creativity and meaning.

Gatherings play a huge role in our lives. The comings together of friends, family, and co-workers have the potential to change the way we connect, the way we understand ourselves and one another, and the way we live. Yet, too often, we’re on autopilot using the same tired formats. We forget to plan for, or fail to even consider, the human connection at the center of it all — the real magic behind a successful group event. I want to help you shift that lens.

Have you ever been to a conference you couldn’t wait to leave? Internally rolled your eyes in another Zoom meeting that could have been an email? Spent hours planning a special dinner party only to have it fall flat?


I strive to help people experience a sense of belonging.

My 3-year-old self with my grandfather, who I called Nana, listening intently.

I’ve always been interested in how groups come together, how they break, how they come back together, and in what shape.

This may or may not have something to do with the fact that I’ve spent a lot of my own life trying to figure out where I fit in. Like many of you, I was born in Zimbabwe to an Indian mother and a white Midwestern American father 😉.

Then, life happened. They divorced and remarried other people, and I toggled back and forth between two vastly different worlds and worldviews. On Friday afternoons I’d leave my mother and stepfather’s Indian, liberal, vegetarian, meditating, Buddhist, Atheist (Agnostic on hopeful days), global household and travel the 1.4 miles to my father and stepmother’s white, American, Evangelical Christian, conservative, twice-a-week church-going, meat-eating, basketball-dribbling household.

I was always both a part of each of these families as well as apart from each of these families. It’s no mystery that I eventually found my way into the field of conflict resolution.

“The Art of Gathering places people and what happens between them at the center of coming together.”


Connecting a group despite obstacles.

“I became a facilitator because I saw a need in my community and I wanted to learn the tools and skills to address it.”

As a first year at the University of Virginia, I was deeply unsettled by race relations on my campus. The school had a strong sense of student self-governance — take on the problems you see and do something about it.

It was here that I discovered Sustained Dialogue and the work of Harold (Hal) Saunders. Mentored by Dr. Saunders, the founder himself, my peers and I learned how to facilitate complicated, messy dialogues with people within our own communities to see if we could create change in our campus culture and structure.

These years deeply informed my work and kickstarted a passionate journey and lifelong practice as a conflict resolution and dialogue facilitator.

While my day job is to help groups have crucial complicated conversations that they’ve been avoiding, my research and writing craft allows me to help demystify how anyone can create meaningful, necessary gatherings for their people. Even you.


Gathering is one of the most important ways in which we shape and build the world we want to live in. How are you shaping yours?

I believe anyone has the ability to be an artful gatherer.

An artful gatherer is someone who is able to create meaning and connection in groups without everyone needing to be the same.

You don’t need a background in conflict management or the personality of an extrovert. You don't need a fancy house or the right chairs. Above all, you need a set of skills that help intentionally and thoughtfully identify why you’re coming together, set clear expectations, and create relevant moments of connection.

Artful gathering is a lifelong practice that instills in you a curiosity, willingness, and a generosity of spirit to ask: How might we do this differently? What does it look like to design a gathering that reflects who we are—in all of our differences—and the world we desire to build?

With such a wide range of experiences, here are a few of Priya’s key influences:

“Gatherings crackle and flourish when real thought goes into them, when structure is baked into them, and when a host has the curiosity, willingness, and generosity of spirit to try.”


Take the Course

Learn the concrete skills to help you design and host a future gathering that is important to you at home, work, and in your communities.

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Read the Book

A bold new human-centered approach to how we gather that will transform the ways we spend our time together.

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What could your next gathering look like? Explore a number of resources to spark inspiration, feed your curiosity, and nurture your gathering practice.

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